[US]Primary or Joint?

2021.11.26 20:03 ThrowRA36829738 [US]Primary or Joint?

Do I have a case for Primary custody other parent with visitation or at least joint custody?
I am not proud of my past and I don't want to give too much away but I was absent from my 6 year olds life until about 1 and half ago.
I was in his life from birth until 6 months and than in and out until he was 2. I am now in a completely different spot in life and am very active in his life.
I took my sons dad to court to get joint custody. I ended up with supervised visits eventually leading up to EOW with joint legal.
Now after getting unsupervised i noticed he had some unusual behaviors. Such as either refusing to use the restroom at my house to peeing on the floor and talking off pants and underwear around my 2 year old daughter(different father).
I discussed the behavior with dad he stated its probably him acting out due to the new situation. I suggested therapy he declined and said if we both talk to him the problem would fix it self.
The problems have gotten worse..
My family had came over and my little cousin who is also 6 she is a girl. She playing with my son they got quiet so me and another adult when to check to on them. We witnessed my son humping her. When asked what was going on he stated they were playing family and they were the parents and parents have “sex”.
I asked where he learned it and he started crying. I hugged him and told him never to do it again that it was inappropriate. I didn't bring it up again.
I let Dad know and he brushed it off and said I was teaching him things and that he will talk to him. After my son went home dad stated I was lying that our son said it never happened.
We started separating him from my daughter after another incident. It then happened again with a friend who came over. The incidents are different each time but all sexual things.
CPS was called by me and dad skated his way out and stated he must learn it from youtube on his phone at his house. Dad stated he will take it away.
CPS closed the case. Well last week he told another kid at school in the bathroom to touch his Butthole. The kids parents were nice about It came to us directly. Dad is still denying it now saying its the neighbors kids fault or I'm teaching him.
I am at my wits end dad states it doesn't happen at his house and refuses therapy.
I am currently about 1k short for a lawyer i can get it by beginning next year.
I am just wanting to see what the possible outcome would be. The main thing I'm wanting is therapy for him but if I went for it would I get Primary? I am thinking I would at least get joint.
Just looking for others thoughts on this maybe something I did wrong through this process or something I could do now?
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2021.11.26 20:03 6SailorUranus9 I'm stuck in a loop of overextending myself and I need some perspective to get out of it

So I've been trying to work on myself lately, and one of the things I've noticed is that I have this habit of overextending myself for other people while being 100% convinced I'm doing it for myself, and then it's only afterwards, once I feel drained, empty, sad, and slightly resentful, that I realize I actually was just being a people pleaser. It's like some delusional mind game I play with myself.
For example, one time I attended every single one of my friend's games during a tournament, through rain and shine, even when I had other stuff to do, and I don't even like sports under normal circumstances. I did it because I do genuinely enjoy being supportive and I feel like that's important in a friendship. When I was attending the games I wasn't pressured to be there or upset about it, I genuinely liked watching them play and being there. But once the tournament was over and I wasn't needed any more, that's when the emptiness and sadness came in and I realized I needed to set better boundaries.
I find this kind of pattern happening again and again, especially since I'm spending the holidays with the family and I feel the draw towards cooking the meals, cleaning the house, spending extra time to find the perfect gifts for everyone, helping out with everything everyone else needs. Traditionally I would think that I just enjoy doing it, but now I'm not so sure.
This all sounds very pathetic as I read it back but it's to the point where I feel like I can't trust myself anymore, and that everything I like to do is actually just me needing to be needed. This isn't something I want to be stuck in forever, so has anyone else gone through something similar?
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2021.11.26 20:03 carolinegraz IM AT UR MOTHA’S CRIB

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2021.11.26 20:03 MightyJacket Handsome Uruk

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2021.11.26 20:03 Kairosiris Need help figuring out what to do with a PC who’s player is no longer in my campaign

Our last session was the Gralhund Villa encounter, now all of the PCs are back at Trollskull Manor. One of my friends dropped out of the campaign and now I need some ideas for writing out their character (a human fighter). Any little ideas will help :)
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2021.11.26 20:03 sambrilliant WD Blue for Pro video storage?

I am really getting sick of buying LaCie rugged drives, I have about 10 in a box in my office, and even though they are cheap it takes a lot of time to go and get a new one, unbox, format, copy paste, repeat (maybe I’m just lazy but that’s besides the point). I’m thinking of moving to one of these options:

  1. 24 TB Raid setup thinking just 0 or 1
  2. 12 TB drive and 12 TB clone
This is for backup purposes only. I usually work off of my 2 TB ssd then do a dual backup. I’m looking into getting 12 TBs of working storage. The extent of my knowledge is that I will lose total space with RAID and you cut it in half with cloning. Would any of you recommend buying 24 TBs of WD blue for raid? Or maybe 24 TBs of WD red? Any recommendations would be appreciated.
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2021.11.26 20:03 EderIsAGod Who is the best scorer of all time that never got 50 points in a game

Just curious what you guys think.
The best scorer with a career high under 100,90,80,70 points is obviously Michael Jordan and the best scorer with a career high under 60 is Kevin Durant but under 50?
A few candidates came to my mind immediately

Also fun fact: Charles Barkley never had a 50 point game in the regular season. He did have 56 in a playoff game with the Suns though
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2021.11.26 20:03 subredditsummarybot Your weekly /r/PsychedelicRock roundup for the week of November 19 - November 25

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38 6 comments Western Psych
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74 5 comments Pretty much every 60s/70s psych artist on Spotify in one playlist
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3 30 comments Groupes that sound like Led Zeppelin 1st album psychedelia; heavy, oldie & noisy psychedelia
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2021.11.26 20:03 asonofasven Finally got my loyalty cars!

Was playing last night, 3 weeks after early access, and I finally got the message that the cars were added!
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2021.11.26 20:03 thegeneraldisarray84 New mini Let's Play series

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2021.11.26 20:03 The-dog-transporter Only suites are left but still...but I bet someone on the W's revenue team knows this is the price a (likely) 20-something will pay for a very good time in South Beach

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2021.11.26 20:03 Mr_Cyberz Last Paycheck

So, I made this post about a month ago when I discharged and the general consensus was that the very last check would take a bit. My EAOS was 25Oct of this year. I have an LES showing that I’m liable to receive about $2,000 but I only receive the mid-month pay. Should I give it another 30 days? Thanks!
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2021.11.26 20:03 NastyBase7676 For pyt$ txt me , 7.oo usd or better

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2021.11.26 20:03 elektron-noise How to route MIDI from a VST to another on various MIDI channels?

How to route MIDI from a VST to another on various MIDI channels? I found this way but its limited by 16 channels only. I wonder if there does not exist a better way?
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2021.11.26 20:03 Simp_Bitch So i found this online when i looked up Pansexual pfp

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2021.11.26 20:03 sharewithme Word of The Hour: suborn

suborn: to procure or cause to take a false oath amounting to perjury, such oath being actually taken
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2021.11.26 20:03 Darth_Vaper883 An Update on the Circulating Supply From the SundaeSwap Discord

I asked the following question on Discord:

55% supply is available for public sale. Total supply is 2B. Does that mean 1.1B coins will be in circulation when the dex goes live?
Got the following reply from SundaeSwap:
No; The public supply will be owned and managed by a smart contract that the DAO has control over; so, people with Sundae will be able to vote on how that is used, such as yield farming, grant programs, etc.
Hope this helps anyone who had a similar question in mind.
P.S: Still don't know what the initial circulating supply would be.
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2021.11.26 20:03 Pickled_Toast_ What did you say as you woke up from anesthesia?

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2021.11.26 20:03 paxcow82 Orlando Sunrise Over Animal Kingdom | Disney World #shorts

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2021.11.26 20:03 3Circe Protein creatinine ratio

Age: 39f
Wondering if the results below are normal. I plugged my results into a couple online ratio calculators and they indicated proteinuria (UPCR=2.56 significant proteinuria) but my Dr. just said all my tests were normal. I have an autoimmune connective tissue disease which is why I’m concerned about potential kidney damage. Maybe I did the conversion wrong? Any help would be much appreciated!
Protein 0.10 g/L (10 mg/dL) Creatinine 39 mg/L (3.9 mg/dL) Ratio 0.25 mg/mg
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2021.11.26 20:03 Slow-Jeweler930 I don't know if he reacted already but I hope he react to this. (Credits to Freyjinn)

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2021.11.26 20:03 ChrispyNugz Biden is perfect and has no control over inflation you silly Republicans.

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