2022.01.17 22:36 s1hushu I don't like my bestfriend's boyfriend. How do I tell her? Should I even tell her if she's happy with him?
I apologize for any typos or grammar mistakes.
My bestfriend (F17) has been dating her boyfriend (M18) for 6 or 7months now. At first, when she first told me they were dating, I was happy for her, but now I'm not too sure.
It started when she told me she was no longer a feminist, because he showed her a "different perspective". He basically showed her some men's rights videos that stated feminists were all man hating heavens. I tried to explain to her that feminism is wanting equality for all, not to bring men down, however she was adiment on staying "neutral"- even though she believes is the main ideologies of feminism. After spending some time with them (mainly as the third wheel) I noticed certain racist and sexist comments he would make. Such as pointing out that they only add strong female characters to be diverse and that there was no real need for them. He finds these strong female characters to be annoying when they speak up or go against the main protagonists commands and that says a lot. I get uncomfortable because he when a girl does something he doesn't approve of he talks about women as a collective being the problem. My bestfriend also mentioned that he says the n-word when they are in private. He is not black.
The way he acts gets under my skin. He is very needy, to the point where she looks uncomfortable. He always wants her to be next to him and if she isn't he moans and gets upset. Like a child. He has no boundaries and is very honest to the point that is unnecessary. He didn't like her before they became friends and sometimes jokes about, which she told him hurts her. He always tells her what to do even after she repeatedly told him she does not like to be bossed around. Whenever they fight, he avoids the problem and nothing gets solved. He is always persistent on getting his way in a way that is disrespectful and arrogant. What really through me off was when he blatantly asked me (infront of people) if I c*t myself after seeing a scar, and then proceeding to ask my bestfriend if our she saw the scars on my other friend's arm, insisting it was s/h scars. I felt so uncomfortable for the rest of the day and left as early as I could the next morning.
I know they are young and this relationship may be one of many, but can't stand lying to her. I don't think he is a good influence or s/o for her. Plus having a toxic relationship is damaging for anyone involved. We have been bestfriends for nearly a decade and we can talk about anything, but this is different for some reason. How do I address it without making things awkward between us? I mean, how heartbreaking is it to know that your bestfriend doesn't like your boyfriend. They seem to really like each other, but the whole relationship makes me uncomfortable and I don't like being around him. How should I tell her that I don't like her boyfriend? Or should I even tell her?
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2022.01.17 22:35 khantroll1 Trouble Migrating From Server to Sever: Error: Database connection failed It is possible that the database is overloaded or otherwise not running properly. The site administrator should also check that the database details have been correctly specified in config.php
I'm sure this is basic, but I'm trying to migrate my moodle install from EC2 to Vultr. I tried following this: https://docs.moodle.org/311/en/Moodle_migration
And now I'm getting:
Error: Database connection failed
It is possible that the database is overloaded or otherwise not running properly.
The site administrator should also check that the database details have been correctly specified in config.php
I've tried every permutation of the config php I can think of, and I've exported the database from the functioning server several times.
config.php shouldn't be the problem, because the servers were setup using the same images, using the same users and passwords, and the directories copied to the same locations.
But I'm at my wits end. This project is majorly behind for this, and a ton of other issues.
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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